Mr. Van Alexander

Richard V. "Van" Alexander, Jr., age 62, of Ellicott City, passed on Sunday, September 10, 2023, with his loving wife early Sunday morning. Born April 24, 1961 in Baltimore, he was the son of the late Sheridan (Eidman) Inners. He was the husband of 42 years to Cheryl (Kramer) Alexander. Surviving in addition to his wife are his twin sons, Brent Alexander and wife Becky, of Columbia MD and Ryan Alexander and wife Amanda of Littlestown, PA; father, Charles Inners and wife Beck; sister, Shaun (Alexander) Day and husband Mark; brother, Christopher Inners and wife Mandy of San Marcos, CA; sister-in-law, Terri (Kramer) Klatzkin and husband Mike; brother-in-law, Mark Argo; and many nieces, nephews, and great-nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his sister, Debra (Inners) Argo and Uncle, Glenn Eidman. Van set a great example for his sons of what a father and husband should be. He was a peaceful and kind man who never gloated with success nor self-pitying about his challenges. He always showed courage and strength in the face of adversity. Van was an avid sports fan. He could often be found in attendance at home and at away games, golfing as often as possible, playing pool, bowling or traveling down south enjoying the coastal beaches! He, his wife and childhood friend, Mike Mchale and wife Jeanne were often together on these adventures. Van had a strong sense of humor. He held his family and dearest friends closest but always offered a hand to help others. He had every tool imaginable to fix anything in the neighborhood or home. Often giving a tool to someone so next time they were ready. The family will receive friends. on Thursday from 1-3 PM and 5-7 PM at Haight Funeral Home & Chapel, 6416 Sykesville Road, Sykesville. A funeral mass will be held on Friday at 10 AM at St. Joseph Catholic Community, 915 Liberty Road, Eldersburg. Live stream available for those unable to attend at https://saintjoseph.cc/watch/ or https://www.facebook.com/saintjosephcc Interment to follow at Lake View Memorial Park, Eldersburg. Those desiring may send donations to the National Kidney Foundation of Maryland on behalf of Vans Twins or the American Cancer Society on behalf of Van. Online condolences may be offered at www.haightfuneralhome.com

Mr. Van Alexander

April 24, 1961 - September 10, 2023